PROLOGUE
TODAY 22-06-2013, I am TWENTY-Something Years Old
My name is Paul Shola Oguntade, at this writing I am three years above two decades. And HONESTLY, I have lived a MAJOR part of these years DOING NOTHING.
I grew up like everyone else; from suckling to crawling, crèche, Kindergarten, primary school, secondary school, university; with a few other menus in between.
Growing up I have always been a bright child, loved by everyone and well known in the schools I attended, and a star among the group. Good grades were common to me, though at no time did I top a class, but I was always doing well.
Along the line I did some paint works, I also wrote a drama that was presented at an organisation I once worked with. I’ve had articles written, some published and some not published. At a point I wanted to be in the banking sector, at another I started considering rap music, later it was to become an electrical and electronics engineer. I have had so many dreams, I had sometimes decided to go into book writing; first it was academic books, then religious books, then novels.
All along I had been having movement of some sort.
Talking about IDENTITY CRISIS, I have had a good share of it. PEER PRESSURE, LOW-SELF ESTEEM, Urban-Culture and its DISTRACTIONS, you name it; I have been there before.
Looking back I am grateful for those times. Now I empathize instead of castigating young folks who still linger in that state or even adults in their 30s and 40s with a marriage, some kids and wonderful living apartment, a good job, pays and pecks inclusive. For these folks, SELF-DISCOVERY or SELF-IDENTITY is not available. And so they just exist to survive, they range from the very broke individuals to the very rich of the society. As annoying as it may seem this is the truth about most of the everyday men and women we interact with in the society.
For me SELF-DISCOVERY came quite late.
It all started when I was getting tired with the result I have gotten over time, and how directionless I was moving. If you asked me what my dreams are, I would not know which of the many desires I should recite to you. To make matters worse I had many influences dictating to me what should be the ‘right’ thing to do with my life; parents, peers, society, media, heroes, heroines, elders and statesmen, school teachers, school books, and school grades, prophets and sages- everyone had something to say.
Because I was tired and was already getting claustrophobic about my state, I started to seek answers; from books, older folks, ‘fathers and mothers’, everyone and everything I could turn to. So many words, semantics and synonyms came my way or should I say I came across them as I searched. Words like DESTINY, PURPOSE, VISION, MISSION, GOALS, CALLING, PREDESTINATION, DREAMS, LIFE, and AMBITION and so on. I read many authors, each one having his/her own perspective about these words, at a point they all would make sense, at another point, I began to get confused again.
Some told me about my talents, others talked about passion, a burden, a need, an inner voice, predestination, a call. The indicators are many and I can’t recall all now. Each time, the indicators would make sense until I come across another, then I am back to square one again.
All these made me ask the question every sane man had asked himself/herself at one point or the other in his life. How we have individually phrased the question could have varied but the intent is the same.
So I asked myself, WHAT IS THE GOAL OF MY LIFE, or rather WHAT IS THE GOAL OF LIFE in general. I knew I needed a holistic understanding of the whole picture in order to know where and how I fit in.
If you have been as inquisitive as I have been, you would have gotten answers that could have all together succeeded in confusing you today. I not am writing a critic to others expressions, all I am doing here is to share with you my experience and what I have discovered.
So here it is; in this e-book I have decided to title THE GOAL-the history of every thing and what matters most, I would share with you my discovery on life’s most important question. I do not plan to add to the list of answers we already have on bookshelves and MP3 CDs, NO! What I am here to do is to paint the WHOLE PICTURE and then allow you to go ahead to make your decisions about life.
I DO NOT HAVE A FORMULA TO GIVE!
At the end of this e-book, I would have succeeded not to tell you what to do with your life, or how you should define your life. What would happen is that I would reveal to you the course of life, and allow your God-given conscience to point the direction in which you should go
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